tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3880526078240688284.post4519010653510350187..comments2009-10-07T08:46:14.141-04:00Comments on Mocha Beauti - A Blog For Women of Color: Cross My Heart and Hope to Die.... Is it ever okay...Abbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08300831018632745735noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3880526078240688284.post-60093713875745139912009-10-07T08:46:14.141-04:002009-10-07T08:46:14.141-04:00Hmmm... In theory, I feel, unless someone is in im...Hmmm... In theory, I feel, unless someone is in impending danger we should NOT tell a secret. <br /><br />Confidentiality and boundaries should be respected. How can we consider ourselves good friends if we tell what they've (friends/relatives) asked us NOT too? <br /><br />Having said that I'm sure we've all been guilty of breaching trust confiding in our confidant (usually a closer friend or spouse)with the stipulation that "they can't tell anyone!" Ironic huh? <br /><br />My friend says the only secrets are the ones' you take to your grave! If you're afraid of it getting out - DON'T TELL ANYONE!!!Deborah Estellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17909157143250059191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3880526078240688284.post-38217057026759273522009-10-07T04:09:13.555-04:002009-10-07T04:09:13.555-04:00Yes! It depends. If no one will be hurt, I won...Yes! It depends. If no one will be hurt, I won't tell it. You can't a secret in a different circle because the world is too small and u never know who may know who!~Kymmy~http://www.blogger.com/profile/00093465747521427709noreply@blogger.com